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A redwoods park ceremony and SF waterfront steak dinner was how Carolina and Ethan built their day — vows under the tall trees at Roberts Regional Park in the Oakland hills first, then a plated dinner on the San Francisco waterfront as the city lights came up. It was a multigenerational family wedding, kids running through the whole of it, which is the way they wanted it.
The day ran in two clear halves: the redwood grove in the afternoon, and the water in the evening. Between them was the drive down out of the hills and across the bay.
Hair and makeup started early with DreamCatcher Artistry, several family members in the chair before Carolina. Her dress was a clean strapless satin gown with a softly folded neckline, worn with her dark hair down, pearl earrings, and a delicate initial necklace. The bouquet came from Vanda Floral Design — a loose, garden-gathered mix of pink roses, peach garden roses, tulips, chamomile daisies, and baby's breath in a spray of greenery, bound with a dusty-rose ribbon.
Up in the hills, Roberts Regional Park was set and waiting: forty-one wood chairs lined along the grove with a white runner down the middle of the forest floor. Ethan got ready in an ivory dinner jacket with a black bow tie, and their officiant, Janette Say Yes, pinned his white boutonnière on among the redwood trunks before the family began to gather.
The groom walked in first with his parents, then the ring bearer and flower girls — three young cousins, the youngest five — followed by the bridesmaids and groomsmen, the women in floral prints and deep teal. Carolina came last, on her uncle's arm alongside her mother, down the white runner as the afternoon light dropped through the canopy in long soft columns.
Janette Say Yes married them in the grove, the family close in the chairs on the forest floor, a small girl in the front row holding a basket of petals and a boy beside her in a bow tie. The kids were right there for all of it. Carolina and Ethan exchanged their rings under the tallest trees, the redwoods standing up dark and straight all around the little clearing.
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“Vows under the tall redwoods, the family in chairs among the trees and the light coming down through the canopy.”
Afterward came the family photos and portraits around the grove — parents and the little ones pulled in first, then Carolina and Ethan out among the trunks with the light filtering down. The redwoods here are second growth. Loggers took the originals in the 1840s and '50s to build San Francisco and Oakland, and the trees Carolina and Ethan stood beneath are the ones that grew back in their place.
The wedding party gathered in for a few photos, and then the whole group started the move down out of the hills and across the bay toward the city.
The SF waterfront steak dinner was at Epic Steak on the Embarcadero, the bay just past the windows and the city lights coming up as the evening settled. A cocktail hour gave everyone time to arrive after the drive from the hills — dinner rolls and red wine on the tables, the dads laughing across from each other, the whole family filtering in — and then the guests sat down together for a plated dinner.
Carolina's sister gave the first toast, then the mothers of the bride and groom, then the bride's uncle. Ethan and Carolina thanked their people, and then everyone found their feet — the kids leading the way onto the dance floor while the couple had their first dance. They cut the cake, a tiered white buttercream piped in soft scallops that opened to reveal pink and yellow layers inside, from Sweet C's Bake Shoppe, and the celebration carried on over the water until last call.