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LGBTQ+ Micro Weddings · California
California LGBTQ Micro Weddings, planned around the two of you
All-inclusive planning for same-sex and LGBTQ+ couples across California, gender-neutral from the first form, with vendors we trust and a team that runs the day.
LGBTQ micro weddings in California
Our Little Wedding plans all-inclusive LGBTQ micro weddings across California, for same-sex and LGBTQ+ couples. Every form is gender-neutral, your pronouns travel into each vendor brief, and you choose your own officiant and ceremony. You pick your venue, food, and photographer; we handle the rest and run the day.
What This Means For You
Planned around the two of you, not a template
Inclusivity isn't a badge for us; it's how the process is built. Here's what it actually looks like when you plan your wedding with us.
Gender-neutral from the first form
Our style questionnaire and every planning form ask about the two of you, partners, not preset roles. You tell us who you are and how you want the day to feel; nothing assumes a role you didn't choose.
Your pronouns in every vendor brief
When we brief your photographer, officiant, and coordinator team, your names and pronouns go with them. Your vendors show up already knowing how to address you, so no one has to correct anyone on the day.
A ceremony written the way you want it
You pick the officiant, and the ceremony language is yours, two partners, a first look or none, who walks in and when. There is no traditional script you have to fit into.
Vendors we already trust with our couples
We match you to vendors from our own list, people we've worked beside on real weddings. You're never handed a name we can't vouch for, and we stay looped in on every vendor conversation.
We're listed in the Equally Wed directory of LGBTQ+-inclusive wedding professionals.
Real Weddings
Couples we've actually planned
Gallery
Real celebrations
Photos from real Our Little Wedding celebrations
How It Works
What you choose, and what we handle
You make the meaningful choices; we build the shortlists, run the logistics, and close every loop behind them. The Big Three are always your own, paid directly at their real price, the bill goes straight from each vendor to you.
You choose & pay directly, their price, your bill
Venue
We research venues, gather real pricing and availability, and compare the options with you. You choose and pay the venue directly, booking it locks your date.
Food & Beverage
A curated shortlist matched to your taste and guest count. You decide what to eat and drink and pay the caterer directly, while we coordinate around it.
Photography
Photographers matched to how you want to remember the day. You choose and pay the photographer directly, the price you see is the price you pay.
Included in your package
Personal Florals
A bouquet or boutonniere for each of you, matched to your aesthetic. You share inspiration; we source, book, and pay the florist.
Officiant
Included, and you pick who feels right. Faith-based, fully secular, or LGBTQ-affirming; matched to your values and your ceremony.
Wedding Cake
A custom cake from a local bakery, sized for your celebration, your flavor, our vendor, no separate bill to you.
Hair & Makeup
Included for one of you, and you choose your artist. Add more of your party any time as an optional upgrade.
Day-of Coordination
A team of coordinators who step in well before the day, confirm every detail, and run it so no one you love has to work it.
Love Notes
In their own words
“We loved our wedding planner Angelina. She is incredibly easy to work with and very flexible with helping us think through the whole event, even things that weren't technically in her scope. You can't go wrong with these guys.”
Questions
LGBTQ+ micro wedding questions
Do you plan same-sex and LGBTQ+ weddings?
Yes, same-sex and LGBTQ+ couples are a real part of who we plan for, not an afterthought. The couples on this page are our own, from Sonoma to Southern California. Every form, vendor brief, and ceremony is built around you, with no assumptions about roles.
Will your forms and vendors use the right names and pronouns?
Yes. Our questionnaire asks about the two of you, never a fixed set of roles, and your names and pronouns travel with you into every vendor brief. Your photographer, officiant, and coordinator team show up already knowing how to address you.
Can we choose an LGBTQ-affirming officiant and vendors?
You can. The officiant is included, and you pick who feels right. LGBTQ-affirming, secular, or faith-based. We match you to vendors from our own trusted list and stay looped in on every vendor conversation, so if a vendor isn't the right fit, we fix it.
Where in California do you plan LGBTQ+ micro weddings?
Across the state. San Francisco and the Bay Area, wine country in Sonoma and Napa, Big Sur and the Central Coast, and Southern California down to Palm Springs. We research venues custom for every couple, so your location leads the plan.
How does an all-inclusive micro wedding actually work?
You make the meaningful choices, venue, food, photographer, from shortlists we build, and you pay each directly at their real price. The included details (officiant, florals, cake, Hair & Makeup, day-of coordination) we source, book, pay, and coordinate for you. You don't need a date to start; it locks when you book your venue.
Let's plan your day
Book a free 30-minute consult, no date required. We'll recommend the right package for the two of you and send your real planning portal after, so you can explore everything before you decide.
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