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Haley and Todd's Oakland backyard micro wedding was seven guests in a friend's yard in December 2020, chairs in rows, heaters running against the cold, and a live stream set up so the family who couldn't travel could still be there for the vows. Rev. Kimberly Cope officiated, Sweet C's Cakeshoppe made the cake, and Hardy Wilson photographed the day.
They got to the yard early and set it up themselves. A projector went up for the stream. Once the yard was ready, Haley got into her dress and the day began the way they'd planned it, small, outdoors, and exactly who they wanted.
Rev. Kimberly Cope officiated the ceremony in the backyard, the seven guests in the chairs and the live stream running for the family watching from home. It was a small circle by design, everyone there was exactly who Haley and Todd wanted close.
For a December 2020 wedding, a friend's yard was the right room. Outdoors, unhurried, and shared with the people who couldn't be there in person through the screen at the back.
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“Seven people in the chairs, and the rest of the family watching live from home.”
Before the ceremony, Haley and Todd had slipped away for portraits at Redwood Regional Park, a few minutes from the yard. The park's redwoods are second- and third-growth, the original old-growth was logged during the Gold Rush, and the forest came back from the stumps into the 150-foot stand that's there today. The oldest trees in the park are around 100 years old, and on a December morning the canopy was heavy and dark, the trails quiet.
After the vows, family photos happened right in the yard, the whole group close enough to fit in a single frame. Seven people is a number where nobody gets cut off at the edge.
The afternoon wound down the way the whole day had run, small and unhurried. There was a toast, the cake from Sweet C's Cakeshoppe was cut, and Haley and Todd had their first dance in the yard.
Seven people, a projected screen for the family watching from home, and a yard that held all of it. The live stream meant the people who couldn't travel were still in the room for every moment, the vows, the toast, the first dance, and the evening moved quietly through all of it until the last ones finally headed home.
December in Oakland has a particular quality in a backyard: the cold that makes people pull close, the dark beyond the heater line, the yard lit and contained while the neighborhood goes quiet around it. Hardy Wilson photographed the full arc of the 7-guest backyard wedding, the cake cut, the candids, the first dance, the table of seven small enough that every conversation carried across it. The intimate Oakland ceremony didn't need scale to leave an impression.