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A private estate micro wedding at Wind and Sea Big Sur is what Jessica and Sean chose for October 2022 — twelve people on a six-acre point off Highway 1, with the whole property theirs for the day. The morning ran slow and close. The ceremony went out on the deck at the very edge of the land, and dinner came at one long table built out over the water.
Sean's father stood up as their officiant. Two young nephews ran the day at the ankles of it. And the marine layer sat low and grey over the coast the way it does out here, softening everything it touched.
Jessica's gown was a clean backless slip with a long veil and a row of small covered buttons down the spine. She got into it with her people close, while the Big Sur pines and the coast sat just past the glass of the estate's living room. When she came out to meet the family who had made the drive, the whole room threw their hands up. A man clapped by the wood stove, a woman turned in a floral dress, and a nephew in a little grey vest craned to see. Downstairs, Sean waited in a navy suit and a paisley tie, a white boutonniere pinned at his lapel.
Before the day gathered, the two of them slipped out to a quiet stretch of the garden for a first look. The coastal scrub and a curving rail stood behind them, and the ocean lay somewhere below the fog. Jessica came around with her white-and-green bouquet — garden roses and dahlias, a touch of blush, trailing greenery — and for a few minutes it was only the two of them.
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They set the ceremony out on the clifftop, where wooden benches faced the grey open Pacific. A small offshore rock broke the water, and nothing lay beyond it but the marine layer. The twelve guests filled the benches, two of them the young nephews, everyone close in on the small green shelf of ground that hangs out over the sea.
Jessica walked in with her father to "Marry Me, Archie" by Alvvays. Sean's father, Dave, stood as their officiant with the water at his back. They laughed most of the way through it, and Jessica held her rings behind her back against the line of covered buttons. When Dave pronounced them married, the small crowd on the lawn was right there for it. They recessed to Natalie Cole's "This Will Be."
“Twelve people on a Big Sur cliff, and Sean's father reading the vows with the open Pacific behind him.”
Then everyone walked the property — the garden paths, the succulent beds, the coastal hillside that drops toward the water. Jessica and Sean took their portraits along it. In one, they stand on the wood deck beside a huge gnarled old cypress strung with cafe lights, the coast railing behind them and the fog soft on the water. They pulled the whole group in for a family photo, and the wedding party gathered with the Big Sur ridgeline behind them.
Eucalyptus and cypress framed the coastline. The sun stayed behind a low grey ceiling out over the water — the exact weather people picture when they picture Big Sur.
Dinner was one long table on the deck built out over the ocean: white linen, dark folding chairs, a low run of greenery and white blooms down the center, a "JUST MARRIED" banner strung along the cable railing, and patio heaters standing by against the coast air. A private chef worked out of the estate kitchen and sent out a plated dinner while the water went grey, then dark, past the railing.
The two nephews announced the couple in with their hands up on the deck, and the toasts went around the table. They cut a single-tier cake from Sweet Reba's, iced white and topped with blush and cream garden roses, and the kids pressed to the front for it. Then everyone moved indoors into the warm light of the estate. Jessica and Sean had their first dance there, close and unhurried, to the Flamingos' "I Only Have Eyes for You," and Jessica danced with her father to the Beach Boys' "God Only Knows."
“It's rare to find wedding planners with this level of professionalism and experience (at a reasonable price) in the Bay Area. It's even more rare to find planners who will go beyond what's expected to make your day feel personal and memorable. Jaime, Dennis, and Casey brought exceptional expertise and imaginative touches to our day that we'll never forget. Whether it was Jaime's graceful handling of our pint-sized guests and pitch-perfect day-of coordination, Dennis's luminous photography (and charm!), or Casey's unending responsiveness, we felt we were in the best hands at nearly every step of this (possibly harrowing) process.”