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Neha and Chris's Indian micro wedding at Sand Rock Farm in Aptos was ten people among the redwoods in July 2021, two ceremonies in one day, on a historic estate outside Santa Cruz. A Hindu ceremony came first, with a fire, a mandap, and family who had flown in from the East Coast; the Western vows followed in the evening, around the dinner table.
The day was built to keep everyone close and the travel simple. Both ceremonies happened at one venue, the break in between gave Neha and Chris time to change, and the redwood grove did the rest.
They'd checked in the day before, so getting ready happened right where the ceremony would. Rooms among the redwoods, the small group of ten already together on the property, the florist coming in early while everything was still quiet.
A florist from Designs in Blooms had set the altar flowers and the mandap before the guests gathered, working early while the grounds were quiet.
The Hindu ceremony came first. A Gujarati priest led the rites at a small mandap set with a low fire, Chris's parents and Neha's mother seated close by. Neha and Chris exchanged garlands, had their clothes tied together, and walked the circles around the fire. The priest folded in the games that go with a Gujarati wedding, the hunt for the hidden coins among them.
Ten guests filled the chairs, three of them children, and the family members who had made the flight from the East Coast had seats within easy reach of the altar. The redwoods stood in for a cathedral.
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“A small fire, a mandap among the redwoods, and the two of them walking the circles with their whole family right there.”
After the Hindu ceremony came photos, then a pause, time for Neha and Chris to change before the evening. Sand Rock Farm gives you room for both: the ten-acre estate was built in the 1880s as a ranch and winery, and its redwood grove, with a trickling fountain and light coming down through the branches, is where couples come to marry here.
With only ten people and the whole property to themselves, family portraits stayed unhurried, the grove, the gardens, and the two of them between the two halves of their day. The East Coast relatives who had made the flight could take their time with the couple, and the children ran the grounds in between. It was the kind of break a two-ceremony day needs: long enough to breathe, short enough that the evening felt like a continuation of the same day.
In the evening everyone gathered around a single dinner table for the Western half of the day. Chris's brother organized the vows, and Neha and Chris said them there at the table, in front of the ten people who had traveled to be with them.
Dinner was a sit-down meal, and the cake, included with the estate, was cut among family. The night stayed loose after that: casual dancing, the East Coast relatives and the children still up, the redwoods dark around the property.